Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem is dominating the headlines as she was recently fired following her alleged extramarital affair with political consultant Corey Lewandowski. While Kristi dismissed the rumors, multiple sources served as proof of Kristi and Cory’s romance. In her personal life, Kristi has been married to Bryon Noem for three decades and Corey has been married to Alison Lewandowski.
Amid ongoing rumors surrounding Kristi Noem and Corey Lewandowski’s alleged romance, the former’s married life has garnered attention. It’s worth mentioning that long before Kristi’s alleged extramarital affair with political consultant Corey Lewandowski made headlines, social media users noted that there were ongoing tensions between Kristi and Bryon.
Kristi Noem and her husband, Bryon Noem, are reportedly not living together as of 2021.
In September 2023, a source told The New York Post that Kristi and her husband, Bryon, were no longer together. The source mentioned that Bryon reportedly moved out of the governor’s mansion in Pierre about two years ago. In fact, the outlet claimed that Bryon Noem knew of his wife, Kristi’s, alleged extramarital affair with political advisor Corey Lewandowski. At the time, Tom Lawrence of The South Dakota Standard confirmed that there was no concrete evidence about the Noems’ separation or Bryon moving out of the mansion. Tom was quoted as saying:
“I know a moving van was seen at the house at the time. There were rumors of a divorce, but when I checked at Hamlin County Court, Stanley Court and others, there was no filing on record.”
Kriti Noem and Bryon Noem’s Social Media Posts Spark Divorce Rumors
Before Kristi was named Secretary of Homeland Security, the Noems’ social media posts were filled with loving photos of the couple. For example, in May 2024, both Kristi and her husband, Bryon, took to their Instagram accounts and shared love-filled photos from their 32nd wedding anniversary. Sharing a carousel, Bryon wrote a heartfelt note. In the note, Bryon called Kristi his favorite girl. He wrote: “Happy 32nd to my favorite girl in the whole world! It’s been an amazing journey and I’m so happy to have been with you. I love you darling! You bless me. Happy anniversary.”
However, things went downhill after Kristi was sworn in as Secretary of the Department of Homeland Security by US Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas on January 25, 2025. From missing her birthday to Valentine’s Day, the duo’s social media was filled with pictures showcasing their respective lives. While Bryon kept his wife, Kristi, off social media in 2025, the latter continued to post family photos from time to time. But Bryon’s awkward pose and distance in the images were clearly visible. It’s worth mentioning that Bryon has never spoken publicly about the rumors that his marriage to Kristi is going through a rough patch. In fact, in December 2025 he appeared in public when Kristi testified before the Homeland Security Committee of the United States House of Representatives. Although he seemed tired, his presence showed that he still supported her.
Kristi Noem and Bryon Noem’s Relationship Dynamics
While Kriti Noem and Corey Lewandowski’s alleged extramarital affair is in the spotlight, the recent public scrutiny involving the former has definitely been an embarrassing situation for her husband, Bryon. However, it is worth mentioning that this is not the first time she has publicly shamed him. In 2018, when Kristi was nominated as South Dakota’s first female governor, Bryon secured his place as the state’s first first gentleman. According to tradition, a special doll widely known as the First Spouse Doll was made in Bryon’s honor. However, it was Kristi’s reaction that caught a lot of attention. When Bryon was hesitant to give away his favorite suit, Kristi said:
“Oh my god, Bryon, they’re not taking your real suit. They’re going to make a replica, like doll-sized.”
What do you think about the bond between Kristi Noem and her husband, Bryon Noem? Let us know.
Also Read: Kristi Noem Caught Getting Cozy With Corey Lewandowski, Source Revealed, ‘I Saw Her on His Lap’
