Many signs that a Taurus man is playing with you should be obvious. You won’t act like the romantic, compassionate partner you usually are when you care about someone.
Don’t be fooled if your Taurus man is occasionally charming. Pay attention to how he normally treats you!
A Taurus man who is playing with you will not pamper you or court you like a loving Taurus partner would. He won’t be affectionate, he won’t make plans with you, and he will refuse to open up.
If your Taurus man doesn’t trust you, can’t relax with you, and refuses to talk to you about the future, he may be playing you. This relationship is not taken seriously.
A Taurus man who loves you will be reliable and trustworthy. If your Taurus man can’t be trusted and is inconsistent, he may be using you.
1. He is not affectionate
One sign that a Taurus man might be playing with you is that he won’t be affectionate. He will probably distance himself from you, physically and emotionally.
Taurus men are generally very affectionate with their partners. They like to hug, kiss and hold hands. A Taurus man’s love for you should be obvious!
If your Taurus man is never affectionate, something may be wrong. It’s one thing to avoid public displays of affection, but a Taurus man who isn’t affectionate in private could be using you.
If a Taurus man is no longer interested in you, he will stop being affectionate. If he was never affectionate to begin with, he may have been playing with you the whole time.
A lack of affection from your Taurus man is a sign that something is wrong, even if he isn’t playing with you. If you never receive love from him, address the problem.
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2. He doesn’t make plans with you
One sign that a Taurus man might be playing with you is that he won’t make plans with you. If he spends time with you, it will probably be at the last minute or just on his terms. Will not plan dates.
A Taurus man who plays with you won’t make plans too far away, even if he plans things with you. Maybe he doesn’t plan to stay that long!
How to tell if a Taurus man is dating someone else? One sign that a Taurus man is likely dating other people or that you are his side chick is that he won’t make plans with you.
A Taurus man who is playing with you may only call you at odd hours or only meet you at your house. He won’t plan real dates with you and he definitely won’t make plans where others see the two of you together.
3. He never talks about the future
Will a Taurus man play with you? Most Taurus men are romantics at heart and are looking for the right person. They don’t want to waste their time with the wrong one. However, a Taurus man may still play with you.
One sign that he is doing this is that he will refuse to talk about the future. You will not discuss any future plans or goals, especially those related to your relationship.
A Taurus man who plays with you won’t tell you anything about where he sees himself in the future. You probably don’t know much about his future career goals or ambitions because he won’t see any reason to tell you.
If your Taurus boyfriend refuses to talk about your relationship, it is a bad sign. He could be playing with you if he doesn’t talk about where your relationship is going or what your next steps are.
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4. Refuses to open
If a Taurus man is not serious about you, he will refuse to open up to you. He will not make any effort to get emotionally close to you.
Taurus men do not open up easily to others. A Taurus man who is not playing with you will take a while to open up, but he will make an effort if he cares about you!
Your Taurus man may have a hard time opening up at first, but he’ll still try if he’s serious about the relationship. He will work to build trust and share more about himself with you.
A Taurus man who plays with you will make no effort to open up. He won’t want to share his secrets or tell you about his childhood. He will never come to you for emotional support or talk to you about his feelings.
5. He doesn’t trust you
If a Taurus man doesn’t trust you but is still in a relationship with you, that may be a sign that he is playing games with you.
Trust is vital for a Taurus man in a relationship. Most Taurus men won’t date someone they can’t trust. If your Taurus man doesn’t trust you, but is still dating you, it’s a sign that something is up.
A Taurus man’s mind games can be frustrating. A Taurus man who plays with you might refuse to trust you even if you haven’t done anything wrong. He might insist that you are the reason for his lack of trust.
A Taurus man who plays with you won’t care that he doesn’t trust you. He doesn’t plan to be with you for a long time. You won’t focus on building trust as long as you get what you want.
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6. It’s not romantic
One of the signs that a Taurus man is using you is that he will not be romantic. Taurus men love romance, so a lack of romance in your relationship may mean something is wrong.
A Taurus man who loves you will always try to woo you and make you feel good. He may not like huge, dramatic displays, but he will still be affectionate and romantic!
If a Taurus man loves you, he will take you out on romantic dates, send you sweet text messages, and be incredibly affectionate. He will make sure that romance never dies in your relationship.
A Taurus man who uses you can be romantic occasionally, but only when he wants something. If your Taurus man only shows his charm when he wants sex, he is using you. He’s not really being romantic.
7. He won’t relax with you
Taurus men are hard-working people, but they also know when to relax! Their ability to rest and relax gives them the reputation of being lazy, but honestly, they are not.
If your Taurus man doesn’t relax with you, it’s a sign that something is wrong. He may not be comfortable with you, he may not trust you, or he may even be playing with you.
A Taurus man who is playing with you might have sex with you and then leave immediately. Something is wrong if you don’t stay to relax and cuddle.
When a Taurus man uses you, he will only want to hang out with you when he is actively getting what he wants. You will never have any reason to stay and relax.
Talk to your Taurus man if he doesn’t relax with you. If it’s a matter of trust or comfort, he or she will try to let you know. If he is using you, he will let go of your worries.
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8. He is never available
How to know if a Taurus man is using you? A Taurus man who plays with you or simply uses you for something will never be available when you need him. He will only date you on his terms or when he wants something.
Your Taurus man may never be available because he is also dating other women or has a girlfriend, and you are his adventure partner. He will never answer your calls and will take forever to respond to text messages, even when they are important.
A Taurus man who is only available for sex is using you. If he’s never available to go on a real date or spend time with you, he’s playing you!
If your Taurus man is really busy, he will tell you so. He will let you know when he needs to work. Whoever is playing with you will ignore you.
9. Not reliable
One of the red flags of a Taurus man and a sign that he might be playing you is that he is untrustworthy. If a Taurus man really cares about you, you should be able to trust him!
You also shouldn’t be trustworthy if you want to beat a Taurus man at his own game. There’s no reason he can trust you for anything if he can’t be trusted by you!
A Taurus man who plays with you will have no problem canceling plans at the last minute. He’ll abandon you if something more interesting comes along and may not even bother to let you know.
If you can’t rely on a Taurus man for emotional support, he may be playing you. If you can’t trust him, it’s definitely a bad sign!
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10. It’s inconsistent
Mixed signals from a Taurus man can sometimes indicate that he is playing you! If a Taurus man is only kind or affectionate in private but ignores you in public, something may be up.
A Taurus man who is playing with you will be incredibly inconsistent with you. He may seem charming and affectionate when he wants something, but he will be cold and completely uninterested the rest of the time.
Your Taurus man’s schedule will seem inconsistent if you’re not the only woman he plays with. Taurus men usually have a set routine. If yours never seems to settle into a routine with you, something is up.
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